Do you need dating tips or have a date coming up soon? With these dating tips, you’ll be ready to successfully go on a date.
How do you ask someone to go on a date?
To start right off, it’s not about the question you ask. The way and how determines how the outcome is going to be. Perhaps you are looking for that perfect phrase to ask her on a date. We can tell you that for the most part it has nothing to do with this.
With most men, the timing is completely wrong. They come out of nowhere with a date proposal. Often an attempt out of desperation. The timing for success is crucial. Women are emotionally inclined and the best time is when she is at an emotional peak in a conversation with you. Then she also knows that you have listened to her.
The manner also matters. Many men ask women out in too businesslike a manner. There is absolutely no game and connection in this. Keep it playful and respond to the conversation. Do not be too playful, because that leads to nothing. If you make a proposal keep it concrete, so she can seriously respond to your request.
Take the lead as a man. Women like confident men. By take charge we don’t mean ask her about her schedule, but come up with a date yourself.
Once you have a date planned, don’t forget, above all, to maintain contact. Don’t sit back and do nothing in between meetings. You will lose the connection and thus the interest. Keep it warm so she longs for your date.
Your first date?
Of course you want to make your first date a success. It starts with looking good, preparing for your first date.
Make sure you go on the date fresh, groomed and rested. Above all, do not arrive late on your first date, that is simply not done and does not make a good impression.
Pay close attention to what clothes you are going to put on. This should suit you and especially clothes in which you feel comfortable in order to appear confident. Do not go for ‘too much’ such as a full three-piece suit and not ‘too less’ such as a tracksuit. Choose a good date outfit.
Also don’t forget to pay attention to your hygiene. Showering and brushing your teeth beforehand is nice. After all, you wouldn’t want your date to smell unpleasant either.
On a first date, it is not wrong to have a drink, but with a twist. For example, take advantage of unique location which in turn makes for a fantastic experience. Or go for dessert at a good restaurant.
Doing a dinner right the first time or something that takes a lot of time is not advisable because, after all, you don’t know each other at all yet. For the same thing, you are stuck with each other when it doesn’t click at all. If it does click then of course a second date will follow.
What to do on a date?
Dating goes beyond just talking. After all, you don’t want to have a boring conversation, you want to make that romantic move. Having a drink is something that is done most often and is pretty standard.
If you really want to make a good impression, then a special date activity really makes an impression. If it’s your first date, then you want to keep it simple and accessible and going out for a drink with a unique twist to it is definitely not wrong.
There are several things you can do on a date. For example, you have sports date activities, simple fun date activities, as well as romantic date activities and more.
Sporty date activities include rollerblading, laser gaming, biking, a walk in the woods or swimming. Sporty date activities are ideal to use if you are both fit and athletic.
An active date is especially ideal if you don’t feel confident yet or can’t lead a conversation well. This way you won’t have any “awkward” quiet moments either. Consider, for example, visiting an Escape Room, the fair, going to a concert, bowling and the zoo.
If you have been dating before and it is not your first date then move on to more romantic dates or something you both enjoy in terms of activity. For a romantic date you can think about watching the sunset together, cooking together, dining at a good restaurant, taking a walk together or visiting and discovering a city together that is new to both of you.
Conversation topics during a date
On a date, you want to get to know each other and hopefully build that special bond. Conversation topics are important in this regard to make sure the conversation does not fall silent and to make connection with each other.
In most cases, men talk too much about themselves. It is precisely by taking an interest in another person that you make many more friends. Often this is also your date’s favorite topic.
Who knows yourself more than yourself? Get to know the other person by focusing on that. This starts with asking questions. So many until you run out of questions. By doing so, you show interest in your dating partner.
The standard questions are often quickly through such as where are you from, what work do you do etc.. You get through them pretty quickly, but they are also so standard that this is to be expected and boring.
Always go on the positive side in a conversation and never address what you don’t like or what annoys you about your work, for example. Especially don’t talk about ex-relationships and politics.
Ideal conversation topics are the questions that get you a story in response or build that connection. Like “what does your ideal day look like? Simply answering yes or no won’t do. This will also give you more depth to the conversation and your dating partner.
Great conversation topics are life questions, movies and music, food, family, travel, leisure, (hidden) talent.
This way you will have some conversation topics for your date that will break the ice.
Some examples of interesting life questions are:
‘What is your greatest achievement you have achieved so far in your life?’
‘What is your most wonderful memory/moment?’
‘What is it you dream about or have never done but would like to do?’
As much as possible, try to ask your questions in a uniquely positive way, so instead of “what job do you do?” ask about her dream job that she would like/would like to have if everything were possible.
How do you seduce a woman?
A date is not just about getting to know each other. After all, you want more with each other be it a relationship or sex. This is all about daring to seduce a woman. So you also need to flirt a bit and tease her. The important thing is that this is done in the right way so you don’t come across wrong.
Eye contact is where it starts. Look at her a little longer than feels normal and comfortable. You can set the initial seduction and interest with this.
Women love compliments. Give her compliments that you sincerely mean, focusing not on her physical appearance, but inner beauty such as her character and personality.
Tease her a little in such a way that you embarrass her. This can be done with something crazy. After all, teasing girls is asking for kisses. Also, it is not wrong to embarrass yourself. After all, she may find this very cute.
Above all, pay attention to what she says and make her feel like the center of all attention. Flirting is an essential component in a successful date and ensures that your woman seduces. How you flirt can be up to you, but be tactful.
Kissing on the first date
For men, kissing on the first date means a successful date. If no kissing takes place on the first date, chances are that she doesn’t see you as a lover or, in other words, “we can just stay friends. It also depends on your personality and that of your dating partner.
In most cases it happens at the beginning of the date and at the end when you say goodbye. This can be simple with one or three kisses on the cheek. If you go a little further then you kiss her on her lips often when you are already in conversation with each other, at parting. Kissing on the first date makes your intentions clear.
If all signs during the date are positive then the time has come to go for that kiss. There will be a moment when you do feel this yourself. Often an “overwhelming” kiss. Do this slowly and use your hands appropriately. You’ll know soon enough if you can possibly switch to tongue kissing when her mouth opens further and otherwise save it for next time.
Kissing often creates more than just a cozy time together. Kissing on the first date is an ideal way to discover if that click is there. Especially if it happens in between, it creates a completely different dynamic afterwards instead of waiting until the end. Some prefer a hug at parting on the first date.
Tips for getting a date
Before you can go on a date you must first find one. How to get a date is often the question asked. In any case, you are not going to get a date by sitting on the couch and waiting. Here are some tips on how to get a date.
Your own circle
The easiest way is to start in your own circle. Enlist your family, friends, girlfriends and acquaintances. Ask if they know anyone who is single and open to going on a blind date with you. It may be quite scary, but they know you and may know someone who would suit you. For the other person going on a blind date with you, this will be just as exciting.
These are some possibilities of course you need to open yourself up. The more active and daring you are, the greater your chances of getting or finding a date. For example, you might run into someone in the supermarket and then you still have to dare to ask her for a date.
Don’t be afraid to strike up a conversation, as that is the first start for a date.