Experimenting in bed not only boosts your sex life, but also makes you feel freer about sex. Here’s how to experiment with sex.
What women think about experimenting with sex
Some women, although they dream of experimenting, are still afraid that you will think her a slut when she starts trying exciting techniques on you.
To still make this go smoothly, it is wise to buy a women’s magazine. There is only one way to escape the old-fashioned morality: make it clear that you actually think she is a dream woman when she starts looking for new ways to please you and herself.
If you notice that she’s actually practicing a new approach on you, go right into it positively and encourage her. The same way we explain these tips about women to you, women’s magazines naturally do the same with tips about us. Therefore, subtly slip a women’s magazine under her pillows that contains an interview with her favorite writer, for example, an article about men’s sensitive areas.
The right moment
Women also like to experiment more in bed. They just don’t always know how to bring that to their sweetheart’s attention.
An intimate setting is the ideal option to talk about sex. It’s easier in bed, after all, than over dinner in the kitchen. If you imagine this then you will know when the right time has come.
Always start with what you like and additionally want to try or experiment with. Always give it a positive angle. Have respect for each other and understand that a new idea always takes time to get used to.
Communication is essential
A good sex life begins with communication. Sooner or later, you have to pitch the idea to your partner to start experimenting. There is always a good middle ground to be found, but with that, communication is key.
Tackle it smoothly. What is exciting for one person may be a total turnoff for another. Above all, don’t let this put you off. Saying what you want is the first step.
Do try to assess how your partner might react to this and, above all, don’t make assumptions yourself.
More fun and excitement
The best way to experience sex is to experiment. This way you will know what good sex is and what you like and don’t like. By doing something different, or experimenting, you will see that sex will get better.
Don’t be ashamed if you don’t know everything. You don’t have to know everything, but you can immerse yourself in it. Young or old, you can always gain knowledge. Rest assured you are not the only one who does not know everything.
Would you want to stay in your comfort zone when you know there is much more fun to be had outside it? Not daring in particular creates a barrier. Dare to talk about it and don’t be afraid to experiment. The fear of this is not necessary at all. You can still always go back to predictable sex. With time, sexual preferences can change. There are plenty of reasons to seek innovation for more thrills and excitement.
Tips for experimenting with sex
Want to freshen up your sex life and take the first step? Here we have some tips for how you can start changing your sex life.
Try a different position
Often we only do the same sex positions which have been established from the beginning in the relationship. They are safe and fine, but in the long run the excitement is less. Trying a new position can provide more excitement. Check out our blog sex positions for more ideas.
Different spot
You can also experience new inspiration and passion by having sex in a different place. This can be in another place in the house, but also another location such as a hotel or the outdoors.
Toys
Another addition can be by experimenting with toys.
Experiment, laugh, dare and fantasize! In short, experimenting makes you enjoy sex more. Trying something new also brings a sense of excitement and that is heart healthy.